I use something called Mobilekeeper from Mobicomp (they are Portuguese I believe). 

It's been around a while and is very reliable :-)

Yeah, Nokia's quite good as far as these things go. I have to say I've never found a sync program (whether for phones or entire computers) that completely filled me with confidence. Somehow something's missing that enables me to know it's got 100% of the "right" things and the correct versions of those; whoever cracks that is going to be on to a winner.

use use the nokia sync and backup tool.

works with notes, outlook, windows contacts (vista), windows calender (vista)... not tried windows mail.